Toby loved this quote by Souza:

Dance as though no one is watching
Love as though you’ve never been hurt
Sing as though no one can hear you
Live as though heaven is on earth

It describes the way she lived.

Toby was an affectionate outgoing being, who loved meeting people and making friends wherever she went. She knew what she wanted and was determined, so she developed keen negotiating skills when she was very young.
She was bright and funny, intelligent and curious about the world around her. From an early age she loved to read and was rarely without a book. She developed a sure sense of her own style and taught herself how to do origami and other crafts. Purple was her favourite colour. Toby loved life: she loved the rain, and singing in the shower, and laughing …